This is a forum, so you don't "friend" people like on Facebook. You just post your questions or comments and see who responds. Right now, this site is a little thin on activity. When it first started a lot of people were posting, but then spammers and junk posters advertising non-needlework stuff, like shoes and heaters, began to post constantly and the moderators weren't very diligent about eliminating the junk. People got tired of trying to find the legitimate posts among all the junk and many went to other sites. I would love to see this site become active again because it is very user friendly. I have noticed a number of new poeple have posted in the last few weeks. Maybe if some of the new people start posting regularly, people will get involved and the site be lively once again.